Monday, September 15, 2014

Why I'm done with Feminists and their causes.

I'll begin with an apology, a sort of journalistic "guilty with an explanation." This is not going to be the insightful, impeccably researched post I promised (to those who cared) a few weeks back; I made that promise at the height of our lively exchange on my initial post about rape, which to date has drawn nearly 100 comments*. Instead I give you what follows, which I hope does not smack too much of an unbecoming rhetorical martyrdom.

Read on before you dismiss this as histrionic.
I looked at this topicalong with related topics in the genders waras a debate. But it's not a debate. A true debate presupposes earnest engagement on both sides, a spirit of sincere intellectual inquiry that admits the possibility of persuasion via evidence and argument. There is no interest in that kind of engagement on the other side. That's why no amount of factual material, no matter how impeccable, would make a difference here. The facts don't matter. Logic doesn't matter. Sometimes, even the plight of actual women doesn't matter, as long as the ideal is upheld. Don't get me wrong, there may be engagement among regular contributors like Ron and Elizabeth and Jenny and even perhaps my persistent Anon from the aforementioned post. But there is no such interest among self-styled Feminists (and their enablers/lackeys), who enjoy a stranglehold on American Thought Leadership in media, academia and, increasingly, government. (And wait till Hillary's sworn in.)

To them this is more of a war, a war in which no prisoners are taken. A holy war, one might say in these ISIS-inflected times.

Oddly, it was the Ray Rice episode that drove this home for me. The very Feminist voices who now wanted Rice held fully accountable for his drunken rage in that elevator were the same ones who, just weeks ago, were screaming at me that women cannot be held responsible for the sex they have when drunk. Even if you want to say that protection of women from predatory men outweighs the need to apply consistent logic, that fallback argument flows from the "weaker sex" image that Feminists also reject out of hand. But when you're waging war, you see, you don't worry about such contradictions. You just try to win. You try to vanquish your enemies.

So it was that Feminist Nation set out to vanquish me.Like the religious zealots they are, critics of my column on rape sought to decapitate me professionally. (And yes, please, know that I am being "writerly." I do not in any way mean to imply that what I've gone through is equivalent to what those poor guys in that desert endured. Jesus.) Understand that these are not garden-variety trolls we're talking about, but highly placed Feminist insiders who write well-read columns or run esteemed law firms. Several of these dear women went straight to the dean of students at Lehigh in an effort to undo my mutually successful three-year relationship with the school. One critic suggested to my dean via Twitter that I was "secretly rooting for the rapists"; in subsequent tweets she speculated what that might suggest about my own treatment of women, and referenced the liability implications of keeping such an obvious degenerate on staff. "I know I would not be comfortable with my daughter in his class," she opined. (Another critic used my LinkedIn profile as a road map to major publications for which I've worked; she wrote blistering emails to top editors explaining why a reprobate like me should not be allowed to soil their pages. She threatened a more organized letter-writing initiative, a boycott and other sanctions.)

I do not know if this campaign succeeded. I do know that I have not been invited back to Lehigh to teach in the springthis, after having fairly specific discussions about my proposed coursework with my most immediate contact, Lehigh's dean of journalism, a few weeks before all this blew up. The dean of journalism is a prince of a fellow but like most folks in academia, he takes his orders from upstairs. Although again, I can't say for sure that any such orders existed. He presented entirely mundane and bureaucratic reasons for withdrawing the offer he'd extended just weeks earlier.

Think of the irony, though: If a liberal-arts education is about anything at all, shouldn't it be about the application of critical thinking to life's "givens" and orthodoxies? Shouldn't it be about subjecting dogmatism to the crucible of classroom analysis? Shouldn't one of the critical thinker's foremost goals be to deconstruct political correctness? That's what I always thought. I guess I can consider myself educated now. 
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* or about 50 comments (exclusive of my own replies) from at least a dozen different contributors.

Thursday, September 04, 2014

Volunteering to be raped...or worse? (Changing the context?)

"A local man, who police say coerced his girlfriend into moving in with him..."

That's the opening of a news item from my morning paper that goes on to describe a cascading series of crimes and calamities visited upon said girlfriendand her childrenby some felonious caveman with whom she agreed to cohabit. Oh wait, I forgot, she was coerced.

Folks, an adult woman has an obligation to avoid being coerced into things that may have disastrous consequences for her; surely that obligation is ironclad if she has kids (as women in these untoward circumstances invariably seem to; how come it's the women living stable lives in million-dollar homes who have all that trouble conceiving?) You cannot permit yourself to be coerced into moving in with an abuser. Call the cops, call the cops again, go to a shelter, recruit your brothers or some of your male friends from the gym to "educate" him. Perhaps buy yourself a Glock, learn how to use it, then keep it handy, wait for Mr. Macho's next tantrum, blow his effin head off and claim self-defense. ("Get hollow points," as that comedianLouie Anderson?used to gibe.) You will almost surely be exonerated or receive some token sentence. But do not give in. If you do give in, it's on you. Don't look for someone else to blame (or some nebulous, self-serving psychological syndrome to cite) when you and/or your defenseless kids suffer for it.*

So it is with all this loose talk about men maneuvering women into unwanted sex.**

Are women fully functioning adults? Or are they, in fact, perpetual wards of the nanny state who require constant looking-after and all sorts of special provisions enacted to protect them from their own puissance deficit? Don't talk to me about the natural physical power imbalance between men and women, either, because that's exactly the kind of reasoning that women themselves reject out of hand in pronouncing themselves fit for police work, military duty and other physically demanding occupations that once were the exclusive province of males.

Which way is it gonna be, ladies? Can you take care of yourselves in relationships and life? Are you the equal of men? Or not.
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* I could mention the obvious SHAM tie-in her, reiterating the ways in which early self-help encouraged us all to feel like impotent victims, but why muddy the waters? Read the book if you haven't, wink.
** I'm not talking about flashpoint, life-and-death scenarios where a man has a knife to a woman's throat. I'm referring to cases where women later complain about having been coaxed or shamed or "pushed" into sex. In other words, the pressure was verbal or implied, and a "No" would not have had fatal consequences. This is also why a woman cannot allow herself to be coerced into moving in with a guy. Once you do so, your options are much more limited. And it's why we teach our children to never get in a car with a stranger...run, scream, kick, fight...even if it does seem to be a life-and-death scenario. Because once you're in that car...

Friday, August 29, 2014

Anti-date rape kit for the modern male.

To be clear, when I say for the modern male, I don't mean that this kit is intended to prevent men from being raped...although remember, Feminist Nation holds that a person must give explicit consent for sex to be legit (and California now agrees), so surely somewhere at this very moment a man is accommodating an amorous partner without ever specifically forming the word, "Yes."... (However, one or both of them may repeat that word vigorously a few moments hence.) More seriously, the following is intended to protect a man from accusations of date rape; with the new semester upon us, it is must reading for every Joe College. I actually recommend that all guys carry these items at all times... If only they could fit in your wallet alongside that four-year-old, slowly biodegrading lambskin condom.

Breathalyzer, for her. If she blows over .08, watch out; you're in the danger zone. For as we know, a man is responsible for ensuring that a woman is fully capable of rendering a sober-minded consent. If she drunkenly climbs into her car and careens off to wreak vehicular mayhem, that's on her...but if she climbs into your bed, it's your problem, pally.




For added legitimacy, consider having a cop handy to administer the test; just remember that some gals are suckers for a man in uniform. She may end up in his patrol car, not your bed.




 


Joint Venture agreement. Spells out each party's sexual responsibilities and stipulates compensation, if any. (That could be a separate crime, of course, except in Nevada.) May be of some use in defending a charge of "rape by fraud/deception," a relatively new sex-crime construct that labels as rape scenarios in which a woman was told a material lie (e.g. "My wife and I haven't slept together in years"/"I swear I've never done it with a guy," "I picked you up in the Pinto 'cause my Jag's in the shop") in prelude to a sexual encounter.

Memorandum of Penetration.
This eliminates the troublesome he-said/she-said that sometimes takes place in the aftermath of spontaneous sex. No more worries about buyer's remorse on her part. If nothing else, the agreement proves that she invited you in, at least initially.






Notary, to affirm the foregoing documents.
I grant you that with both a cop and a notary in attendance, the mood may suffer. But these are requisite steps in today's ever-contentious sexual climate.

Digital tape recorder. I have no prurient aims in mind here...and if you do, remember that the laws against revenge porn get steadily tougher. It's just that women reserve the right to revoke consent at any point in the proceedings; even if she says it when you're within sight of the finish line, you must stop or it's every bit as much a rape as if you forced yourself on her at the outset. So keep a recording device handy to document that the liaison remained consensual from beginning to end. 









Finally, under the heading "If all else fails", make sure this number is programmed into your speed-dial:
407-898-5151
It's the direct line for elite defense attorney and frequent CNN guest commentator Mark O'Mara. He got George Zimmerman off, he can probably help you.


Tuesday, August 26, 2014

College, thy name is woman.

Should college "celebrate" anything? Or just inform/discuss?
It is very sad to me that in today's academia, if you defend menor counter the Feminist-inflected gospel in any substantive wayyou're likely to be labeled a misogynist. Not only that, but you may well be accused of hate speech for the apparently unforgivable sin of causing dyspepsia in Feminists (and their administrative enablers and/or sympathizers). To this observer it seems that if there's any "ism" afoot here, it's really an endemic/unopposed/worsening climate of misandry; that's a relatively obscure term for the hatred of men. (Be honest, when was the last time you even heard the word before this post?) The relative obscurity of misandrycompared to the ubiquity of misogynytells you right away which term, and which concept, enjoys the greater currency and cultural acceptance. Here I quote controversial attorney and social gadfly Maria Maltseva: "While I agree that women have yet to reach their full potential in many areas, and while I don’t object to reasonable protection, legislation, and support, the demands I hear modern feminists making are neither reasonable nor rational. In fact, the entire movement seems focused on perpetuating the illusion of great disadvantage so as to profit those women who have poured their life’s efforts into an ideology that doesn’t hold up to scrutiny." Maltseva goes on to deconstruct that ideology, and I commend her thoughts to you here.

This commitment to ideology is such that many women in academia (and outside it as well) cannot abide anything that fails to fit their gender-baiting agenda and will go for the jugular at the slightest provocation. There is simply no room for dissent or compromise in this tyranny of the so-called oppressed. After I tweeted a link to last week's post on rape, several women sought to destroy my mutually enriching several-year relationship with Lehigh University. For all I know, they succeeded. (I know for a fact that they told my dean that I had no business being anywhere near a college classroom and that they'd not be comfortable if I were their daughter's professor.) Beware the wrath of a Feminist scorned.

What happened to the climate of critical thinking and open-minded exploration that academics love to uphold in their op-eds and glossy recruitment brochures?

Notwithstanding the foregoing, I do have a congenital dislike for being dismissed as a lunatic, so I thought I'd try a parallel to another issue that has been much in the news and should resonate with everyone reading this.

Ever since the Michael Brown shooting we've heard numerous black commentators talk plaintively about raising their sons as young black menin particular the importance of imbuing black males with what might be termed "rules for being African-American in public." Far from being out there on the hysterical fringe, these commentators have included esteemed New York Times journalist Charles Blow, CNN's Sunny Hostin* and others. These rules include the likes of "don't make a scene," "don't run anywhere after darkthere may be cops around," "never argue with the police, even if they stop you without cause," etc. Some parents even try to micromanage their sons' attire, instructing them to avoid wearing hoodies, baggy/saggy jeans and other elements of "thug-wear." In sum, these rules would seem to hark back to the gentility of the old Plantation South and the obsequious deference then expected of blacks. Are these notions disempowering to young black men? Probably so. Do they unfairly burden the potential victim with responsibility for his own potential victimization? Absolutely.

Now, are these parents racists? Self-haters? Clearly not. They're pragmatists who know the ropes, or think they do, and seek to prevent their kids from ending up under arrest or under the ground (or lying dead on a hot Missouri street for hours). We would all hope that in years to come such concessions to pragmatism will be unnecessary, grim vestiges of a less enlightened era. In the meantime, however, black parents discourage their kids, especially their teenage sons, from "bucking the system." This, by the way, was no newsflash to me. Long before Michael Brown, long before Trayvon Martin, I knew (personally) black parents who would become enraged with their sons for calling attention to themselves in public; the transgressors got screamed at and/or were grounded.

So I'll end this post where I started the other, controversial one. Rape is always wrong; I don't want to see one more woman raped. And rape, let us not forget, too often leads to murder. Why tempt fate?
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* I am not a fan of Hostin, whom I regard as an unreconstituted racist, but she's a mainstream darling, so she fills the bill here. 

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

What we should expect from our colleges.

From time to time, emerging/developing events in my life make me reconsider what I'm about, and why I do the things I do (to the extent that I even know; sometimes I think I'm the last to become aware). One such emergent scenario is upon us, and it strikes me as expedient to reprise a post I wrote some years back, to coincide with the publication of a loooong piece Michael Shermer asked me to write for Skeptic

The post below details literally what I believe we should expect from our news, but to my way of thinking, it applies metaphorically to college instruction as well. The attentive reader will not have much trouble making the appropriate journalism-to-academia replacements where needed. I have written extensively on my feelings about the need for impartiality and/or the absence of agenda in college-level instruction. To me, the goal is critical thinking: to use the classroom as a crucible for any and every idea, from the sublime to the (seemingly?) ridiculous, from the uplifting to the deeply offensive (to most people). As I wrote in one op-ed for the Wall Street Journal many years agothis was before I'd ever looked down at a single lesson plan"College is the great laboratory of the American mind. And as in any laboratory, we must sometimes work with materials that may destroy us." I do not put that line before you as a stroke of genius. It simply suffices to convey my key point: If your classroom is not, at least at times, incendiaryif you look around the room and all heads are nodding; if the political climate is monolithicyou're are probably not doing your job. It should not be the per se goal of a class (or a professor) to build consensus.

Accordingly, it is not the prof's job to cheerlead for social causes; it is pointedly his job to avoid that, because the adoption of causes = the abandonment of critical thinking (and the inherent marginalizing of students who may think/feel differently). My foremost concern as a professor is the intellectual sovereignty of the student, perhaps the nonconforming student above all. He or she may be one of the precious few students in class who is thinking clearly and critically and free of pre(mis)conceptions.

So with that as preamble, here goes. Remember that whenever you come across the terms journalism and journalist, it is probably safe to substitute the terms college and professor, respectively, or some variant thereof.
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From time to time since February 2008, when my long article on journalism and the news media first appeared in Skeptic, people have asked me for more specifics on what I regard as the building blocks of valid, serious-minded news coverage.

Journalism must be apolitical.

This line of thought reached critical mass in 2001 with the controversy over Bernie Goldberg and his muck-raking book, Bias*, which savaged the mainstream media for its strong (and unapologetic) leftward tilt. It's a familiar argument by now and there's no need to go into it at any great length. I think we'd get a fairly universal buy-in—at least in principle—on the idea that journalism should never have a specific political agenda, Left or Right. That consensus is likely to crumble a bit when you get to a more pointed discussion of implementation. For example, we'd have no trouble finding a large group of people who think The New York Times reports the news "straight," as well as another large group who think FOX News really is "fair and balanced" in its reportage. In truth, neither the Times nor FOX comes anywhere close to objectivity; and if there are large groups of partisans who think they do, it's only because the tenor of the respective reporting coincides with their own, well, biases.

Journalism should not have a nationality.

Agreement here would be less widespread and/or vigorous, especially from conservatives, self-described "patriots," and others who, for example, still chafe at the multinational** tone of Peter Arnett's coverage during Desert Storm. A "borderless" approach to journalism has profound and far-reaching implications. It means, most conspicuously, that even an epochal event like 9/11 should not be reported as an absolute and inarguable tragedy, because it would not be received as such everywhere. After all, upon hearing of the terror attacks, citizens partied in the streets of Damascus, Tripoli and Tehran—just as Americans might party in the streets if we popped all of Al Qaeda leadership in one big whack-out. To paraphrase and extend Eugene O'Neill's savvy observation about the (deterministic) continuum of life, no event takes place solely in the present moment, but rather is a composite of all that has gone before. As in the case of a revenge killing over an ancient grievance, there is always a history that has shaped what is happening today, even if that history is generally unknown (or even unknowable). Which means that 9/11 did not begin or end on 9/11. Nor is it the journalist's job to report that history; that would be contextualizing, which journalists should never attempt unless they can be sure of doing a comprehensive job. And because that's impossible—even Mike Wallace wasn't around when the earth cooled—it should never be attempted.

It is simply bad journalism to cover an explosion that kills 10 American GIs outside Tikrit differently from a raid on an Afghanistan cave that results in the death of 10 of the world's most fearsome anti-U.S. terrorists. Besides—as a practical matter—even if journalism upholds "Americanism"...whose would it be? The Left's? The Right's? Should journalism revere what America is now? What America aspires to be? According to whom? The problems are evident.


Just report what happened and where.


Journalism cannot and should not use existing law as the basis for its take on a story, because laws are transient, malleable and often arbitrary.

Journalism should never cover man's law as if it were eternal law (assuming any such thing exists), framing illegal activities as if they're objectively wrong or framing legal activities as if they're objectively right. (Lest we forget, Rosa Parks broke the law when she refused to give up her seat.) Historically, in fact, many might argue that journalism has proved to be most valuable when its reporting took a contrarian bent, opposing existing laws and policies. (I don't favor that, either, because journalism isn't supposed to take an active side in things, pro or con. Any changes that occur should occur "by accident," as a result of the public's response to what it hears and sees in the News. Journalists are simply conduits, providing information to a citizenry that will do what it believes needs doing with that information.)

The very foundation of American democracy, the U.S. Constitution, is itself elastic, open to interpretation and subject to amendment. And even the loftiest of ideals embedded in the Constitution and other founding documents are unproven. "All men are created equal"? It's a nice thought, and an uplifting premise for a culture...but its scientific validity remains moot.


Which brings us, finally, to:


Journalism should be amoral.

If by now our consensus on the aims of journalism has become somewhat fragile, this is where it really fractures. A lot of people have trouble with the proposition that journalism should not stand for good or evil, right or wrong. (Which, of course, means that journalism should not have causes.) Realize, for starters, that most political agendas are premised on notions of right or wrong; thus, morally tinged reporting too easily lends itself to political purposes. But it goes beyond that. To filter the news through a moral lens is to presume to know unerringly what the "correct" moral values are in the first place. Perhaps worse, in practical terms, news rooted in "social norms" inevitably tends to promote the notion that majority means validity. A news organization that builds its ethos around the values embraced by "most right-thinking people" is doomed from the start.

"Well wait just a damned second now!" you exclaim. [Hence the exclamation point.] "At the very least, journalism can safely uphold life over death! 'Thou shalt not kill' and all!" To which I would reply: You're kidding, right? We can't even agree as a society on whether "life" is the ultimate value. Think: abortion, capital punishment, right-to-die issues, wars. (We view the wars that we decide to wage as "just" and the loss of life that results as a "necessary evil" or "collateral damage." We forget that bin Laden felt similarly justified in attacking the World Trade Center.)


Clearly all loss of life is not equally tragic to all journalists, all everyday Americans, all Afghani warlords, all practicing physicians (who must make so-called "end life decisions") or anyone else. Thus we are left with the problem of deciding which deaths are "objectively" tragic and which aren't. Those are value judgments, and the media have no business making them. As soon as the journalist starts rationalizing, qualifying, parsing, hair-splitting or performing other ethical gymnastics in order to force-fit some types of death into this moral framework (but not others), he has abandoned objectivity and devolved into the realm of partisan politics and/or religion.


The objective newsperson must start from the premise that there is no absolute right or wrong, at least that we can all know and agree on. In the journalist's world, there is no justice or injustice. There are only events. From my point of view, it is never the media's job to tell us how to think or feel about a story, and it certainly isn't the media's job to "reflect traditional values." Slavery once was a traditional value. So was homophobia. So was the internment of Japanese citizens during World War II. And on and on. And I'm not saying those things should be recognized as objectively wrong now. I'm saying that it's not the media's job to weigh in. In the end, the only workable approach is for the news media to project no values at all.


Nor can we turn to "God" for answers here, because the existence and nature of God are controversies unto themselves. Besides…whose God? Osama's? Jerry Falwell's? Joel Osteen's?


In the end, the media must learn to embrace, in practice, the catchy ethic that FOX news disingenuously preaches: We report, you decide. That's all there is to it.


* Interestingly, or maybe sadly, enough, Goldberg then took a job as a FOX analyst and forswore any further pretense to objectivity. That doesn't necessarily taint his book, which was an outgrowth of a highly courageous column he wrote for The Wall Street Journal while still employed at network (CBS), and which I think stands on its merits. It just depresses me to see him trumpeting the party line night after night on O'Reilly or wherever. How does he not feel hypocritical?
** Some prefer the word traitorous, and have never let Arnett (or his bosses) forget it. Here's a typical example.